Monday, May 26, 2014

Memorial Day, History and Origin

Memorial Day, History and Origin

I love Memorial Day. Ever since my son Jay was in the Marines and had 3 tours to Iraq it has taken a different and unique meaning. Jay’s roommate and friend Alex Arredondo was killed there in Iraq. Alex was an awesome kid. He has been truly missed.
Enjoy the history and origin of Memorial Day. Hopefully it will open up the meaning and significance for you.




Memorial Day is an American holiday observed on the last Monday of May which honors men and women who have died while serving in the U.S. military. Originally Memorial Day was known as Decoration Day. The Day originated in the years following the Civil War and became an official federal holiday in 1971. Many Americans observe Memorial Day by visiting cemeteries or memorials, holding family gatherings and participating in parades.

Early Observances of Memorial Day

America’s first national cemeteries were established because of the Civil War. More lives were lost during the Civil War than in any other conflict or war in US History. By the late 1860s Americans all across the United States had begun holding springtime tributes to these countless fallen soldiers, decorating their graves with flowers and reciting prayers.

There is also evidence that organized women's groups in the South were decorating graves before the end of the Civil War: a hymn published in 1867, "Kneel Where Our Loves are Sleeping" by Nella L. Sweet carried the dedication "To The Ladies of the South who are Decorating the Graves of the Confederate Dead" (Source: Duke University's Historic American Sheet Music, 1850-1920).

While Waterloo N.Y. was officially declared the birthplace of Memorial Day by President Lyndon Johnson in May 1966, it's difficult to prove conclusively the .origins of the day. It is more likely that the holiday had many separate beginnings. Yet, what is known for sure is that The Federal government declared Waterloo, New York the official birthplace of Memorial Day. Waterloo had 1st celebrated the day on May 5, 1966. Waterloo was chosen because it had hosted an annual, community-wide celebration. During this celebration businesses closed and members of the community decorated the graves of soldiers with flags and flowers.

Decoration Day – Predecessor of Memorial Day

On May 5, 1862, General John A. Logan, leader of an organization for Northern Civil War veterans, called for a nationwide day of remembrance later that month. “The 30th of May, 1868, was proclaimed for the purpose of strewing with flowers, or otherwise decorating the graves of comrades who died in defense of their country during the late rebellion, and whose bodies now lie in almost every city, village and hamlet churchyard in the land,” he proclaimed. The date of Decoration Day, as he called it, was chosen because it wasn’t the anniversary of any particular battle.

On the first Decoration Day, General James Garfield made a speech at Arlington National Cemetery, and 5,000 participants decorated the graves of the 20,000 Union and Confederate soldiers buried there. Many Northern states held similar commemorative events and reprised the tradition in subsequent years; by 1890 each one had made Decoration Day an official state holiday. Many Southern states, on the other hand, continued to honor their dead on separate days until after World War I. http://www.history.com/topics/memorial-day-history

Evolution of Memorial Day

Memorial Day changed from honoring just those who died fighting in the Civil War to honoring Americans who died fighting in any war.

In 1915, inspired by the poem "In Flanders Fields," Moina Michael replied with her own poem:
We cherish too, the Poppy red
That grows on fields where valor led,
It seems to signal to the skies
That blood of heroes never dies.

She then conceived of an idea to wear red poppies on Memorial Day in honor of those who died serving the nation during war. She was the first to wear one, and sold poppies to her friends and co-workers with the money going to benefit servicemen in need. Later a Madam Guerin from France was visiting the United States and learned of this new custom started by Ms.Michael and when she returned to France, made artificial red poppies to raise money for war orphaned children and widowed women. This tradition spread to other countries. In 1921, the Franco-American Children's League sold poppies nationally to benefit war orphans of France and Belgium. The League disbanded a year later and Madam Guerin approached the VFW for help. Shortly before Memorial Day in 1922 the VFW became the first veterans' organization to nationally sell poppies. Two years later their "Buddy" Poppy program was selling artificial poppies made by disabled veterans. In 1948 the US Post Office honored Ms Michael for her role in founding the National Poppy movement by issuing a red 3 cent postage stamp with her likeness on it. http://www.usmemorialday.org/backgrnd.html


Memorial Day is now celebrated in almost every State on the last Monday in May passed by Congress with the National Holiday Act of 1971 (P.L. 90 - 363) to ensure a three day weekend for Federal holidays. This law also declared Memorial Day a federal holiday.
Several southern states have an additional separate day for honoring the Confederate war dead: January 19 in Texas, April 26 in Alabama, Florida, Georgia, and Mississippi; May 10 in South Carolina; and June 3 (Jefferson Davis' birthday) in Louisiana and Tennessee.
Current Memorial Day Legislature
On January 19, 1999 Senator Inouye introduced bill S 189 to the Senate which proposes to restore the traditional day of observance of Memorial Day back to May 30th instead of "the last Monday in May". On April 19, 1999 Representative Gibbons introduced the bill to the House (H.R. 1474). The bills were referred the Committee on the Judiciary and the Committee on Government Reform. To date there have been no developments on the bill. http://www.usmemorialday.org/backgrnd.html

Have a wonderful Memorial Day,
Charyl aka Mom8isme

Monday, May 12, 2014

One Day At a Time Sweet Jesus



One Day/Step at a Time

You do not always have to know when you are going to get to your goal, or how you are going to get to your goal, but you do need to take the next step.

~Peggy McColl

This is an awesome quote. One I need right about now. Sometimes I feel like I am dead in the water. It has been 6 weeks since I got sick.  I know God is in control and He has a purpose in all this but I sure don’t have a clue what or why. I just press forward one day, one step at a time.

I was just looking back on some old blog posts from 2013 and came across this one.  It fit perfect to how I am feeling now.  The post was about the book God Never Blinks by Regina Brett. 50 Lessons for Life’s Little Detours. The chapter I was reading at the time was You Can Get Through Anything Life Hands You if You Stay Put in the Day You Are in and Don’t Jump Ahead. The author was describing a time when she had cancer and struggled on a daily basis. But she realized that all she had to do was get through the day she was in. The past was done and the future was just that “the future”. She says “The only way through it all was to stop dwelling on what yesterday brought (good or bad) and what tomorrow might bring (good or bad). The only day worth living was the one she was in. Those 24 hours were do-able as long as she didn’t drag the past and future into them.”

She said it took discipline to put on blinders and not look back or forwards. As long as she held to that plan she did ok. As long as she focused on the moment at hand,  life was do-able.

This was just the advice I needed to hear today. I have been discouraged because I am not getting better any quicker. I have been discouraged that it has been 6 weeks and my goals are just sitting there. Most days I haven’t even been able to blog or read anything meaningful. I really want to work on our DSD business and just can’t get it out of neutral. But, the bottom line is all I have to do is worry about today. THIS 24 hours. Tomorrow will come soon and those 24 hours will be do-able too.

                      As my mama used to say “One day at a time, sweet Jesus”.

Until Next Time,

Wednesday, May 7, 2014

Confusion

Confusion


Have you ever felt something was just right and then it was taken away?
How about when you feel like Jesus led you to the perfect place and then it was gone?
Confusion reigns in my heart without answers. I just don't get it. Maybe I never will.

I really felt God led me to my job at the Lighthouse. I loved it there. I loved the people. I loved the job. I was content to stay there for a long time. And then I got sick. Then I got sicker. And sicker.  Ended up in the hospital.

Weeks went by and I felt I needed to resign and let go of the job. I had no idea how long it would be until I was strong enough to go back. Didn't feel it was fair to keep them hanging.

The problem is... My heart is still there but my body can't handle it. I am still to weak and my immune system is toast and couldn't handle all the germs anywhere and especially there.

So why? Why did God give me that perfect job and then take it away. This is something I struggle with on a daily basis.


When I look at the scriptures I see:


Proverbs 3:5-6 – Trust in the Lord with all your heart and do not lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge Him, and He will make your paths straight.




Jeremiah 29:11 – “For I know the plans that I have for you” declares the Lord, “plans for welfare and not for calamity to give you a future and a hope.”

I know these are both true. I know I can trust Jesus to lead me down the right path. Even if I don't see the reason for it. I know that Jesus sees the whole picture. I only see a sliver of it. He sees how it all fits together and I only see the random pieces of the puzzle that don't make sense.

So, I will wait and pray and see how He guides me. I don't want to push any doors open that He wants closed. I have been known to do that and it doesn't work out so well.


Consequently, I will live in the land of confusion until God gives me the next move I need to make. I will wait patiently (or not so patiently) until I see the path I need to take.  He is faithful and He will do it.


Until Next Time,
Charyl aka Mom8isme

Monday, May 5, 2014

Cinco de Mayo



Cinco de Mayo – May 5th




Growing up in San Diego, I have always enjoyed Cinco de Mayo.  I love Mexican food and look forward to any and every excuse to have it.  Mexican restaurants have a tendency to go all out on Cinco de Mayo.  Awesome food, excellent Mexican music and much, much more. 



I have never known why Cinco de Mayo was celebrated.  I just took it for granted.  This year I have decided to find out the history of all the holidays that I have celebrated all my life and am clueless about.



Cinco de Mayo—or the fifth of May—commemorates the Mexican army's 1862 victory over France at the Battle of Puebla during the Franco-Mexican War (1861-1867). A relatively minor holiday in Mexico, in the United States Cinco de Mayo has evolved into a celebration of Mexican culture and heritage, particularly in areas with large Mexican-American populations. Cinco de Mayo traditions include parades, mariachi music performances and street festivals in cities and towns across Mexico and the United States.

What is Cinco de Mayo?
On Cinco de Mayo, Mexicans remember the Battle of Puebla, fought on May 5, 1862. On that day, Mexicans won an important battle against the French army, which was invading Mexico.


Why was France invading Mexico?
France had a long history of interfering in Mexico's business, dating back to the famous Pastry War of 1838. In 1862, Mexico was having big problems and owed money to other countries, mainly France. France invaded Mexico to try and get their money.


Why is the Battle of Puebla so famous?

Basically, the battle is famous because the Mexicans weren't supposed to win. The French army had about 6,000 soldiers and the Mexicans had only about 4,500. The French had better guns and were better trained. The French had already beaten the Mexicans a few times as they made their way to the city of Puebla, from which they planned to go to Mexico City. No one thought the Mexicans were going to win the battle…except maybe the Mexicans!


What happened at the Battle of Puebla?

The Mexicans had made defenses around the city of Puebla. The French attacked three times, and each time they had to retreat. When the French cannons ran out of ammunition, the Mexican commander, Ignacio Zaragoza, ordered an attack. The Mexican attack forced the French to run away! The Mexicans cheered and President Benito Juarez said that May fifth would forever be a national holiday.  For the Entire article click HERE


Now, you along with me know the history and origin of Cinco de Mayo.  I plan to have my enchiladas and Spanish rice for lunch.  How about you?


Have a fantastic Cinco de Mayo,
Charyl aka Mom8isme